Friday, June 13, 2008

Commitment

What is commitment??Cambridge dictionary says "When you are willing to give your time and energy to something that you believe in,or a promise or a firm decision to do something".

When it comes to a relationship, most people associate commitment with marriage which might be true but not in all cases.To me commitment in a relationship would be the willingness of a person to give all that they can to make a relationship work.Now I might be questioned,does it all not lead to marriage.No,it need not.Again,people might say,a relationship did not work out because you weren't committed enough.But thats not true because with time,people can change and so can interests.It might hurt if a particular alliance does not work out but clearly at the end of the day you know that both of you have given it a 100% while it existed.

Its usually easy to blame the failure of a relationship on one person and say that they weren't committed enough but deep down you know that it isn't true (:

End of the day,things weren't meant to be and you should to learn to accept things as a whole and not accept only those things that make you feel good.Sounds like I'm leaving things to fate?On the contrary, life became a lot simpler by accepting that they are other things in store for me.I made my choice and so I decide my fate (:

1 comment:

Dhaval Shah said...

Infact that's the thing that keeps one going on after it has ended, that no stones were left unturned.